Not too many people like to talk about domestic violence, but it is prevalent in our rape culture society we call the United States! What do women and children have to do with poverty and the criminal justice system? You would be surprised how much women and children are involved.
We hear domestic violence is purported by men, well most of the time that is. Do we ever really look at why a woman is charged with domestic violence. Nine out of ten times it is because women are sick of being abused and they actually fight back. When these abused women fight back and are arrested, the book is thrown at them. Meaning, the judge makes an example out of the abused woman and punishes her with the maximum sentence. The children are removed and placed with the real perpetrator while their mother sits in jail and pays her restitution to the courts in which she has to prove she is a fit mother to regain custody of her child(ren). Meanwhile, the abuser is as free as a bird possibly abusing the children.
I speak about this topic from experience and working with women and children fleeing domestic violence. Instead of making an example out of the woman who fought back, look at the dynamics and statistics of why women fight their male counterparts. Instead, the judge sentences a woman to a mandatory thirty-day jail sentence, five years formal probation, and fifty-two anger management classes. This ends up costing the abused woman in one year $1,100 for anger management classes, $1,000 – $1,800 for probation, $1,000 -$3,600 in restitution, which averages on the high side of $6,500 over the course of a year. These are rough estimates with which it can vary from state, county and city. Not to mention there is additional attorney fees.
The courts consider this punishment for wrongful behaviors, but never looked at the logistics behind why women fight.